Losing a dear person…

Losing a dear person… What does it mean? You can lose a fried, because he/she has betrayed you. You can lose your love partner as he/she has found a new one. You can lose your relatives because of their death. A mother can lose her unborn baby because of miscarriage. But in any case it’s extremely painful…

It’s painful as you’ll never see dear eyes and smile… It’s unbearable as you’ll never be able to touch so well known hands and kiss dear cheeks… It’s terrible you’ll never hear their voice… All these have been keeping only in your mind and memory. And the most terrible thing is to understand that nothing will ever able to substitute your loss…

Of course, you can say you can find a new partner and friend. A mother can bear another baby. But it’ll be just another, it’ll be different from the original.

And what about the death of the dearest and nearest? It even sounds unthinkingly terrifying… We are crying, mourning… And nothing can be done to change anything. It’s life. It can be cruel with us without any strong reason. And we should make effort to accept it. And just to make easier the losing of a dear person you should spend more time with your dear and enjoy every minute with him/her not to regret about anything. Take care of that what you have got…